Dear Blondie: My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years now. We rarely ever have sex at all! And it's really starting to drive me nuts! We have sex MAYBE 2 times a month...if I'm lucky..and when we do it usually only lasts a few minutes. I've expressed to my man that I have a problem with our lack of lovemaking and yet he does nothing about it. He tells me he's depressed and that him not wanting to have sex has nothing to do with me. I think he's full of crap! What do you think? And what do you think I should do about this situation?...I'm only 25 years old and he's only 24...we're WAY too young to be dealing with something like this. Do you think my man is cheating or is he being honest about the whole depression thing?
Blondie's Response: While depression can have serious effects on lovemaking..There can also be a plethora of reasons why this is happening...First rule out all possibilities of another women...next..how is his health? When was the last time he had a blood test (hormone workup)..have his testosterone levels checked...If he is ejaculating quickly maybe he subconciously fears sex with you because he knows he is going to let you down..if all else fails..oral sex is a good starter..don't be afraid to initiate sex with your bf ..good luck

Dear Blondie: I have been dating my girlfriend for about a year and a half. We have a long
distance relationship with her going away to college. The first summer that we met our sex life was very consistent. This summer she has picked up a new job working 6 days a week at a very high class restaurant. Since she started working here she has become very tired lately which is understandable. The issue for me is that our sex has been very inconsistent compared to last summer. She always seems to put it off because she is too tired. I approached her about not feeling like she was interested anymore but she got very upset. Should I leave the situation alone and wait for her to come around when she's more awake, or how and should I approach her at all. Thank you for your time, I hope you can help me out. Take care.
Blondie's Response: I don't understand what you mean by she got upset? You must have said it in a nasty way, otherwise maybe she is just mad at you for some reason?

Dear Blondie: Ok,well im 14 and im dating a 19 year old,my dad knows this,but he doesnt know
im not a virgin,i lost my virginity before i turned 14,but i dont know if i should tell my dad..i was wondering if me & my bf should wait a few weeks thentell dad so he thinks i was 14 when i lost it or what?...anysuggestions?....thanx a million..Renea
Blondie's Response: If you are trying to piss off your dad then go ahead and tell him, otherwise shutup.

Dear Blondie: Hi! I have a question for you. This is really embarassing. I am 22 and have never had a sex toy. I love masturbating, but I've always just fingered myself. There is a whole market of toys, and I am interested in buying my very first one. Do you have any suggestions of a really great one?
Blondie's Response: Um, try this http://www.dimout.com/beaded-dildo-vibrator.html

Dear Blondie: Okay,i broke up with my ex a few weeks ago for cheating on me,well using me to cheat.Long Story. Well like 2 weeks after i broke up with him i fucked his older cousin. And i still like him and know i could possibly get him back so should i go for it? Or should i lay back and look for someone else since i fucked one of his family members?
Blondie's Response: Find someone else you slut.

Dear Blondie: My boyfriend can get a million erections but only cums like once. Any tips on how to get him to blow a couple more loads?
Blondie's Response: LOL, wait some time after the first :)

Dear Blondie: i having a problem. I wont to have sex with my bofriend, but it feels like im not ready and i'am. I've already had sex before but i dont understand! Can you give me any suggestions on what i should do? Thanks your turly
Blondie's Response: I can't suggest for you to do anything, its your vagina.

Dear Blondie: hey look I had an abortion about a week ago and everything was going well now I am swollen down there and I don't know what to do I mean I cant tell my mother because she has no clue that i even had an abortion what should I do?
Blondie's Response: Go to the doctor and ask!

Dear Blondie: I love to masterbate myself but there is only one thing i could only cum if i
think of girls not guys why's that...
Blondie's Response: You are gay.

Dear Blondie: If a virgin having sex on the first occasion and how far the penis penetrates say your virginity is completely gone at the same time.
Blondie's Response: Ok?

Dear Blondie: What percentage of guys are circumcised?
Blondie's Response: At present, around 80 percent of US males have been circumcised, mostly for non-religious reasons. The frequency of newborn circumcision has fallen in the USA from 90 per cent in the 1950s to around 60 per cent today.

Dear Blondie: How can guys satisfy girls if girls' orgasms take so much longer? By the way, shaved pubes?
Blondie's Response: They don't always take longer if you know what you are doing.  By the way, tight anus?

Dear Blondie: My gf is pregnant if our parents find out we are screwed we are only 15 if i hit her in the stomach like she wants me to will she loose it? what are ways of getting rid of it by ourselves
Blondie's Response: No she won't, hopefully she'll have a reflex and kick you in the nuts.

Dear Blondie: Do all girls have a fishy smell to their pussy?
Blondie's Response: NO, just you do latinhaze420@aol.com

Dear Blondie: My name is Amanda, I have been with my boyfriend for about 7 months and we have sex everyday and that is great and everything But it would be even better if he would talk dirty to me. I try to start it so maybe he would feel more comfortable with it but then I am left being the only one talking. we have the rough sex and it is great but all it is missing is all the dirty talk, what else can I do?
Blondie's Response: Maybe it is just not his cup of tea, why don't you just ask him about it, tell him you want him to talk dirty to you.

Dear Blondie: Can my girlfreind get pregant from anal sex
Blondie's Response: Hm, well yes she can, however your future baby will be born right out of her asshole, next time she goes to the bathroom be sure to put your hands out and catch him,  do not be alarmed if the baby's skin color is slightly darker than yours.  If anyone has any more advice for this man email him at shsfootball44@yahoo.com

 Dear Blondie: I would like to know how to cum faster. I would have sex with my g/f for atleast 4-5 hour straight before cum and sometimes she can't take it and tell me to get off cause she's tired and I would like to know if having a 12 inch penis is the cause of this??? Should i go to the doctor to get checked out?
Blondie's Response: No, the cause is in the peanuts in your skull.  Email this idiot at Sbrklyn9@yahoo.com

Dear Blondie: Me and my boyfriend have been together for three years and have a little girl together and now our sex live well to be honest it last for like to mins now my question is how do u no when he has moved on and how do I get him 2 go longer in bed is there anything I could do?
Blondie's Response: Do something new, something you do not normally do with him.  If you don't suck his dick, suck it.  If you don't take it from behind, take it from behind! etc etc.

Dear Blondie: How Long does it take for a girl to get tight like if she was a virgin again?
Blondie's Response: You can only be a virgin once genius.  Vaginas are not like octopus, they don't grow back.

Dear Blondie: Hey, um my bf is six years older than me and is way more experienced and he keeps askin me to have sex or at least blow him but then he gets in these moods where all he wants to do is cuddle and tell me how much he loves me... i know he was to have sex wit me but i'm scared he's too old... is it gross to fuck a guy so much older...
Blondie's Response: There is really nothing wrong with it unless you are at least 17, 18 years old.  If you are 13 and he is 19 then we got a problem.

Dear Blondie: I need help everytime i go out with a guy kiss him or grab his hand i always feel like touchin and fingering on myself i just can't help it i know am a virgen but damn it i am freaky i need help blondie : (
Blondie's Response: Why don't you email almightycreator@aol.com and ask him if he wants to get freaky with you.

Dear Blondie: My girlfriend and i have been dating for a year now and whenever she gives me oral sex she will not swallow. is there anything i can do to ge her to swallow?
Blondie's Response: Starve her for a week, maybe she will get hungry.

Dear Blondie: if i masturbate will my dick grow and is 8 inches big for a 15 year old
Blondie's Response: Sure it will grow then it will shrink when you are done, you fool.  Also, are you using the metric system to measure? Erf.

Dear Blondie: hello blondie what's up , i ma 18 yrs old and still virgen but i love and touchin on my self i am a self freak virgen i would say but i wanna know if gettin finger popped would i loose my virgenity ... help me blondie please ..
Blondie's Response: No, now bend over so I can get a sample :)

Dear Blondie: im a 20 yr old female, and i have never orgasimed, is there something wrong with me, me and boyfriend have tried everything, and still nothing works. how do i find out if somethings wrong? who do i need to see? i hope you can help! thanks
Blondie's Response: I m tired of answering the same question. There are plenty of the same question in previous questions below.

Dear Blondie: I really want to be a model. People everywhere ask me if I am, and i always say no. They always tell me I have the face for it but Im worried about my body. What do I need to have physically to be a GREAT model. Hopfully someday I would like to be a playbot model. I think those women in the magazines are so beautiful. Please answer my question! Thank You so much!
Blondie's Response: Go to our partner site www.hotpeopleusa.com

Dear Blondie: I want to know. that i am 20 i started mastubation when i was 16 , now i want to know that i am masturbating once daily , i am physicly week ,is masturbation reponsable for my physical weekness and told me that how many time mastubation in a day is safe.
Blondie's Response: Did you know that horrible spelling is a sign of excessive masturbation?

Dear Blondie: I've been going out with this girl for a long time and she's got great feet and iv got a foot fetish but I don't no how to tell her I want to suck her toes please help.
Blondie's Response: First off you are a sicko, regardless why don't you either just do it or tell her you want to do it and see how she reacts.

Dear Blondie: Me and my girlfriend have sex quite often. We can go for hours and hours, and I can orgasm 5 or even 6 times a night. But she NEVER orgasms! I've eaten her out and fingered her for soooo long sometimes, and even during sex I can tell she's enjoying it, but she NEVER orgasms. We've talked about it, and she tells me I do it SO GOOD and it feels so amazing, but she never orgasms. The sex is great too, but I think it's just not complete unless she orgasms. I feel worthless since I can't get her to orgasm. She thinks something is wrong with her, what can I do? Help Me Blondie!
Blondie's Response: Ask her if there is something she wants you to do to make her orgasm, otherwise she may not be relaxed enough to orgasm.  There's a chance you might not be as good as you say :)

Dear Blondie: My boyfriend claims that wearing a condom is uncomfortable for him and he can't have an orgasm when he wears one... I want him to enjoy sex but we need to be safe at the same time... and another thing is that I can't take birth control for health reasons.. what can I do to make sex both enjoyable for the both of us, and safe?
Blondie's Response: Tell him to stop being a little bitch and just wear it.  Perhaps you can please him with oral sex before or afterwards.

Dear Blondie: My girlfriend claims she is a virgin. We do anything else except having sex. she doesn't want me to touch her vagina and said she never allowed anyone to touch her there. Why do you think she doesn't want me to touch her vagina?
Blondie's Response: Maybe you are repulsive. Ask her.

Dear Blondie: I'd like to explore some sexual fantasies of mine w/ a professional - specifically a Dominatrix. Normally, I'm as aggressive a guy as you'll see (in & out of the bedroom), but I've had these intense desires lately for a woman to smother me w/ her butt, tie me up, & even penetrate me! So...what's the deal w/ kinky sex professionals?...are they remotely legal?...how careful do I need to be in selecting one?....Also, these fantasies are pretty powerful - could I screw up future relationships in my obsessive search for a woman w/ a strap on collection & a thick booty??
Blondie's Response: You're a sick mother fucker.

Dear Blondie: I been with my G/F for almost four yrs and we have never had sex. I mean we do everything else but have sex. What do u think the problem could be. Thanks
Blondie's Response: It hasn't dawned on you yet that she doesn't want to have sex with you?

Dear Blondie: Hello sir, I just wonna know that after using condom properly while doing sex with HIV positive girl ,can i also HIV positive (AIDS). In other by eating pussy or kissing the whole body can a person get AIDS. thanks
Blondie's Response: Hello Miss, although you may be safe you are taking a very bad risk.

Dear Blondie: I want to give a blow job to my friend but I've never given one before and I was wondering if you could give me some good advice for my first time so I won't be completely horrible
Blondie's Response: I know I've probably answered this more than once on this page, LICK AND SUCK.

Dear Blondie: How do I get my non energetic wife of 15 years to perfeorm oral sex on me? I do her two or three times everytime before we have sex and yes she has two or three orgasms. But she almost refuses to ever blow me. I try to tell myself that it doesn't matter, but it does and I can't seem to make her understand that it is important to me. Am I wrong for this?
Blondie's Response: Sorry to say if she has not done but by now, I don't think she will, why don't you just guide her to it while you are going at it and see how she reacts.  If all else fails just ask her what the problem is.

Dear Blondie: i have been dating my boyfriend for about 4 years on and off and neither of us are virgins, and we never had sex with eachother but everytime we try to he says im too tight or hes not in the mood, what do i do help? i am not getting much satisfaction by fingering and getting eaten out,thanks!
Blondie's Response: Tell him to get his act together and that you are fucking horny and you need some satisfaction.  If all else fails please email almightycreator@aol.com perhaps he can tap that.

Dear Blondie: Hey theres this guy and his a little bit older then me we have been fooling around for the past 2 months. He fingered me about 2 weeks ago. it was his first time doing that. a couple days later we were hangin out and he rubbed my pussy. But now he doesn't want to do anything i think. he wont even talk to me, did i do something wronge. Help What should i do i like him alot!!!
Blondie's Response: Why don't you tell him that you really like him a lot? Ask him if you did something wrong, I wouldn't know, I wasn't there.  If all else fails you can always rub your own pussy.

Dear Blondie: Every time I am with my girlfriend and we are making out, I get a hard-on easily, just from kissing and being with her! Is there anything I can do to keep from getting hard when im with her all the time.
Blondie's Response: She must be really hot eh? why don't you bust a nut before you see her so you are a little worn down by the time you do see her.

Dear Blondie: Well I just wanted to know i have sex with this guy and he never comes though and i was thinking something is wrong with me! but when ever i have sex with someone else they always cum! and i wanted to know why doesn't he cum??    
Blondie's Response: Perhaps something is wrong with him? Are you cumming first and leaving him out to dry?  Maybe try some different forms of sex that may turn him on more.

Dear Blondie: I have been with my girl friend for 3 1/2 years now. We have 2 children together. My problem is I want her to give me head to completion. She just says that this is a nasty request and she refuses to do it. I try to explain to her that she is robbing me of a great feeling, but she just doesn't understand how good it feels to cum while being sucked off. She thinks the taste and consistency is gross. She told me, even though she has promised before, to do some research and she would be open minded about trying it when she hears something good enough to try that will actually work. I am attempting still because I really want her to do this for me and I need some ones help. Please, if you know a way to convince her to let me blow a load in her mouth that will not make her sick, due to taste or what ever, Please help me!!!!!     
Blondie's Response: Maybe you can get lucky and convince her to let "blow a load in her mouth" on your birthday or something?

Dear Blondie: what can i do to please my boyfriend and I'm scared to ride him and i was wondering can you tell me how i might make our sex a little more iteresting... Thanks Jessica      
Blondie's Response: If you have yet to ride him, then that would please him the most at this point of the relationship. Guys love a girl on top. There's no getting around it. If you don't ride him, he WILL break up with you!

Dear Blondie: what is the best way to give a guy a hand job?how do guyz really like it?     
Blondie's Response: Wow, now, I know for a fact I have already answered this question. And I also have reason to believe it is from the very same person who FIRST submitted this lost question. It should be the one where it talks about how you can get your boyfriend really hard while making out and then asked what the best way to jerk off a guy is. Why not be a NON-ignorant pelican, and actually SCROLL DOWN a couple of questions to back when I FIRST answered your question. It's still there, it ain't like I deleted it. Erf.

Dear Blondie: Hi there, i have a question..if you have sex with a guy and he wears a condom and cums in you while hes still in you and he dosent pull out right away can sperm leak through the base of the condom and get a girl pregnant?    
Blondie's Response: Yes, but even though the chances of getting pregnant are very low, I highly suggest he pulls out right away just for precaution due to the fact that once he reaches his orgasm, he will then get soft (getting back to its flaccid state), thus leaving plenty of space for semen to leak past the spaces where the erect penis once filled. Just kick him off as soon as he's done coming because you don't want him becoming flaccid while still inside of you or else the semen can get in you.

Dear Blondie: ok, hi blondie now i got a question for you. me and my girlfreind are pritty serious, and were wanted to have sex, now im a virgin and she isnt but we got ready to have sex and it was in my car, now i was ready at least in mind, and she was as well. but for some reason i had a lil problem getting fully hard, now one reason i can assure myself is because of the uncomfortablility of the car but i dunno y i couldnt fully get it up, i guess i was just nervous and it wasnt the right time and place, but i after a lil bit got it up and we had sex but it was to uncomfortable in my car so i kinda lost it and there wasnt much we could do in a small space, but i mean is that normal somtimes for your first time to have a bit of trouble, i mean usually i never had a problem and when we went back to my house later i could get hard but my parents were home, lol i dunno could you help me or give me an answer..   
Blondie's Response: Yeah, since it was your first time having sexual intercourse, that is pretty normal to have erectile dysfunctions due to a nervous reaction. You were nervous, that's all. I suggest you both stick to the bedroom for now rather than trying kinky places to have sex. And just relax. It's only pussy. It ain't going to bite. 

Dear Blondie: Blondie hey I need to ask u a question I desperately need to know..Me and My boyfriend have been having Sex ever since the beginning of our relationship. We've been together for four months now. But for some reason every time we get Intimate he doesn;t last more then 5 mins!!..I mean we go trough all the bases first before we do anything because If not I wont feel right. I wont be In the mood you know?..But I need to desperately know what to do because Its not fair for me because he doesn't satisfy me If he cums in like 5 mins. Maybe outa all the times we've had sex I've had ONE orgasm =/...And for some odd reason It has been like that for all my other ex's my other ex he would cum In like 2 MINS!!! I would get nothing out of It...The only time is I have to get my bf drunk for him to last long and you know I love my boyfriend with all my heart and I dont have the heart to tell him u know "you suck because u cum to quick" I would never say something like that but Blondie I need to know what to do PLEASE!!! tnx ;)  
Blondie's Response: Considering the fact that he's 26 and your 20, I am assuming that none of your previous boyfriends were your age or younger. Upon this assumption, it may be safe to say that all of these men just haven't been used to such a tight vagina, and as we all know, guys prefer a nice tight one down there as opposed to a loose one. Guys have a tendency to reach orgasm sooner than the girl if it's nice and tight down there since the sensation of a tight pussy is just too much pleasure to bear to be able to last longer than 5 minutes. Maybe get him drunk more often, because that seems to work. And the reason for that is due to the fact that the physical body has a much slower reaction during an inebriated state, so then the nervous system will be much more slowed down and he will feel more numb to the pleasure, hence, giving him the ability to last longer during sexual intercourse. I'm not going to sit here prescribing the right drug for that since I'm not a doctor, so just stick with the Hennessey. There, problem solved. =)

Dear Blondie: Okay, do girls like a dick shaved, trimmed, or do they even care if its hairy? 
Blondie's Response: Most females don't like a bush, unless it's a fetish or for some other unknown reason. As far as the preference between shaved and trimmed/shaped-up, I'd give it a 50/50 shot. Probably about the same scale as whether guys like their girls completely shaved or trimmed/shaped up. Just remember to SHAPE IT UP (like you would your beard, moustache, etc) after you trim because girls like it nice and neat down there when it's trimmed. It would be pointless to just trim without the shape-up, so don't be half-assed in your pubic hygiene. 

Dear Blondie: blondie i would like to know why i last so long when my girl is on top of me but when i am in missionary posistion it takes me 5 - 10 mins to ejaculate? i wanted to know a way to convince my gf to let me eat her out. me and her been dating for about a year and a half and we did everything else including sex except letting me eat her out. i never have done it before and she knows that so wat should i do? 
Blondie's Response: It is possible that the fact that it is easy to get the most penetration out of the missionary position that you are getting the most sensation out of intercourse. And obviously, the more sensation, the more pleasure, hence, the faster you are likely to ejaculate. By the way, you've been having coital sex, anyway, what's so hard about getting down on all fours and doing a little oral [sex]? Wow.

Dear Blondie: Watz is da best positions to make a girl cum fast?? 
Blondie's Response: There is no sure way to "make a girl cum fast," considering the fact that it all depends on whether or not you know all her hot spots; how you use your mouth on her and feel her during intercourse; how much she trusts you; how much pleasure she is in in the moment ; how you're "working it" down there; etc. This is all because it doesn't take much for a guy to ejaculate semen, while on the other hand, girls need special attention for it to happen for them. You can't rush her into ejaculating fast. Most girls haven't even ejaculated yet in their life since their partner was too focused on just screwing rather than making passionate love and getting focused in each position used. Therefore, girls usually just reach orgasm without "coming." What you fools need to realize is that there is a difference between actually "coming" and reaching orgasm with a girl. One is having an orgasm while she is actually squirting/leaking/pumping out maybe a cup of whitish vaginal fluids, while the other is just having an orgasm without all the mess coming out of her vagina. The other obvious difference between the 2 is that her "coming" is exponentially more pleasurable than just reaching the usual orgasm as she would be shaking and trembling more than with a normal orgasm. The problem with guys is that most of them don't even know there's a difference between a woman just reaching regular orgasm and her actually "coming" since for guys, reaching orgasm and ejaculating is the same thing considering the fact that guys can't reach orgasm without ejaculating and vice versa. However, there is only one known position to make a girl ejaculate and that is the missionary position. Hit up your local bookstore for books on sexual positions for more on that.

Dear Blondie: How can I get my boyfriend really hard when me and him are making out?
what is the best way ti jerk of a guy and get him really hard?   
Blondie's Response: If you don't know the answer to the 1st question, then it's obvious you are too young to do anything sexual with him. When you are ready to become sexually intimate with your boyfriend, you will know the best way to jerk off his dick since every guy has different likes and dislikes. I'm not mean, so I will leave you with SOMETHING to think of. If you really want to get him hard and just can't wait to fondle your guy, I suggest you get down on your knees and start licking and putting your sucking skills to the test. I highly suggest you practice first on an ice pop, that way you will get used to the feeling of something hard in your mouth (maybe cop one of those American red/white/blue flavored ice pops they sell at ice cream trucks). After getting comfortable licking and sucking it, practice going all the way down the pop as far as you can (WITHOUT biting) and keep your mouth at the lowest point of the pop (where the balls would be), holding that position for as long as you can before going back up to kiss the head of it. Learn to deep-throat if you want to really make him come. After all, guys love BJs better than just a HJ (Hand Job).

Dear Blondie: My girlfriend and I have sex on a regular basis but sometimes when we do it I cum in a matter of minutes and other times when we do it I can last for hours, but we seem to be doing it the same way each time so why is this?  
Blondie's Response: There is a number of possibilities for you coming quick at times, and lasting longer at others. If you and her have sex one day after the other, then you are not giving yourself enough time to let your balls recharge which could be the reason for the longer lasting sessions since it would take you longer to become excited if you've had sexual intercourse less than 24 hours ago. If you wait at least 48 to 72 hours before having sexual intercourse again, it is likely you will come quicker than if you hadn't waited long between screw sessions. Male orgasm (just like a female's orgasm) has a lot to do with your psychology as well. It's all in the mind, so if you want to last longer, just focus more on making love to her and on giving HER sexual pleasure (such as staring into her eyes and appreciating her body while at the same time doing her i.e.: caressing/sucking on her breasts) rather than just focusing on how good her pussy feels. Do that, and you should boost your lasting time at least double the amount it would take to come. 

Dear Blondie: My dick is 6'inches..im wondering if dats a unnormal size for only a 14yr old turnin 15??....another question i fucked some girl 3 times and she cums, but i havent cum'ed.. last time i fucked her for almost 2 hrs and still aint cum..can u give me any advice how can i cum? 
Blondie's Response: About the penis size and age brackets, scroll down a few questions before this as this has been answered by me on numerous occasions. Most notably a few weeks ago, so just scroll down a couple of questions about the last person who asked the same thing and you'll see the answer.

As far as your semen-blocking syndrome, I've recognized your E-mail address and it seems as though this is not your first time in complaining to me about your difficulties of reaching orgasm and ejaculating. For someone at your age to claim to be able to withhold from ejaculating and reaching orgasm (or in YOUR vernacular, not yet "cum'ed") you realize what you're saying is that you would make the perfect porn star? Why not try for the porn industry? Because not only will you get to have a lot of hardcore sex with thousands of sexy promiscuous women ("beat a lotta hoochies"), but you can make a living off it while at it ("mad benjamins," in your case). Maybe you shouldn't really consider it such a curse, but rather, a gift. And also, before I forget, you're only 14, so I highly doubt you have enough experience to actually make a girl come after noticing your claims that you were so good in bed that you made her actually ejaculate/come. Other than oral sex, there's only one position of actual vaginal intercourse I know of that makes a girl come (AKA uncontrollably squirt out a lot of whitish gooey juices for a couple seconds with her lower body shaking and shivering the whole time, leaving big messes) and I doubt you even tried that position yet (I'm not even going to tell you that position yet because it seems as though you have a lot to learn and experience before you do any of the novice-advanced positions, considering your age at this time which is only 14). You are probably just thinking of the fact that she is reaching her orgasm (she can have an orgasm without coming) because that is the height of sexual pleasure before the "withdrawal period" (meaning, before the period where everything goes downhill after you both reached orgasm and finished moaning/groaning and you pull out of her).

For starters, try masturbating to straight hardcore porn (no joke, as this is just a test session). And if straight porn doesn't work, it is also possible that you may be gay. Maybe if you tried gay porn, you just might be able to relax a little more psychologically, and actually reach orgasmic bliss. Oh, and before I forget, "unnormal" is not even a word of the English lexicon. Just FYI. Your welcome.

Dear Blondie: how do i make my penis bigger?..im embarassed of my size 
do the pills really make the penis bigger?..it does say a garuntee
Blondie's Response: If you truly feel inadequate with the size of your member, then maybe you should do something about it. I seriously believe pills don't do any justice, and probably comes with a lot of side effects when taken. And though penis surgery has been proven to work as an enlargement method in the past, it is not only costly, but scary to do since it is an extremely delicate procedure. I've read somewhere how the most popular method is penis exercises such as the ones found on www.penilefitness.com since the article I read said how a few skeptical doctors took the chance and tried it and after waiting patiently within almost a year, grew their penis noticeably bigger. But use your instincts and best judgment in trusting penis enlargement methods as many of those sites that claim to have the tools to enlarge are scams such as the pills. Just STAY AWAY from surgery, pills, pumps, or anything that is seemingly unnatural. You don't want to be left with permanent damage or scarring on the tissue for the rest of your life because then not only will you have a below average size, but will have a nice big bruise or stretch mark to lotion up every night.

Dear Blondie: Until what age is the penis growing? If I'm 6" right now (18 years) will it countinue growing?
Blondie's Response: The age range from when the penis starts or stops growing can be from as early as 10 to as late as 19 to 20. It all depends on the individual. But 6 inches is a decent size. That's considered "above average" considering the fact that the average size is 5.5 inches worldwide.

Dear Blondie: The last two girls that I had sex with tell me that they didn't feel my cum, but I did cum inside of her? What could this be? How can I cum more? Thanks. 
Blondie's Response: Wow, the only way you can come more is to not have sex for a while and let your balls recharge/re-up. But anyway, a lot of females are not able to feel your ejaculatory fluids upon ejaculation considering the fact she is too much in the moment of pleasure for her to even notice. Plus, during intercourse, the female body secretes HER OWN brand of vaginal fluids, so it wouldn't make a difference whether you came in her or not because chances are she will not feel anything except for the pulsating/throbbing effect of your penis during ejaculation. My question to you is what in the blue hell are you doing having unprotected sex? You trying to have unexpected offspring that early? Seems to me you may be about to be a double baby's father. Better go cop some Clear Blue (TM) quick.

Dear Blondie: dear blondie: i had sex with my boyfriend like on the 5th day of my period. last month(dec) i got my period on the 14th and dis month(jan) i got my period on the 11th.. but i had sex with him on the 5th day of my period and it was gone the next day..can u get pregnate when u have sex with you period? or can you get pregnate when having sex with your period towards the end of it like a day before its going to be over.. Help me blondie..!!!!
Blondie's Response: Dear Idiot - OF COURSE you can get pregnant! You can get pregnant at ANY TIME OF THE MONTH/YEAR TILL THE DAY YOU REACH MENOPAUSE! Just because having sex during your period minimizes your chances of pregnancy, don't mean that the odds are in your favor all the time. There's still a considerable risk ANY TIME you have unprotected sex! Quit laxing, wasting your time reading this online and seek emergency birth control options at your local clinic A.S.A.P!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Dear Blondie: I have a problem. Umm I was doing my girl in the ass, and I was doing my thing Hard. So i finished, got off and we both went to sleep, but when I was laying there the tip of my Dick was hurting. So I got up in the morning to take a piss, and on my Boxers there was a lot of blood like she had her period on me. But she didn't because I pulled the skin back, but not all the way and the little thing connected from the skin to my Dick was half ripped. So I cleaned it , but I don't know what to do. what is the best way to clean it, and what should I do? please help
Blondie's Response: You definitely must go see a doctor, and next time don't fk her so hard...You gotta take it easy cause it'll be painful for both of you ...The best thing to do right now is leave it alone, rinse it with a mild cleanser, and apply ointment...and definitely DO NOT HAVE SEX!!!

Dear Blondie: My girl and I have been going out for about 3 months. She tells me I am good at kissing and fingering and yet every time I want to take it further to show her what else I may or may not be good at, she says no. I know that girls want it romantic and I don't mind providing that, so I decked out my room with flowers and candles, put some r&b on, got some silk sheets, got a red sheet to put over the lamps, and bought some edible massage lotion, gave her a massage, kissed her all over, around "there" and then she randomly remembered she needed to go home....what's up. then she goes out of town for a week and when she gets back she doesn't want to do more than just give me a kiss...am I actually not good at kissing or is she just not actually into me and just using me for an unknown reason or what...I know she isn't a virgin so it isn't that she is timid.
Blondie's Response: Her hesitation to having sexual intercourse with you could be because of many things, but I won't name them all. Just the most probable ones. For one, she may have had a really bad experience during her first time of intercourse, and is not yet ready to do it again till she is comfortable with herself--as well as with you--enough to start having it again. Another possible reason may be that considering the fact you and her have only been together for 3 months, which is a relatively short time in a relationship to be having sexual intercourse (being that it IS the most intimate 2 lovers can get with each other; believe it or not, many girls make their men wait close to a year for it), perhaps she isn't trying to make herself seem promiscuous/easy. You should confront her about her sexuality and try to pinpoint what is going on in her head. But be easy when asking her about it. Try to bring it up without being insensitive about it such as "so, how come you aren't letting me go all the way with you yet?" And then be understanding to whatever her problem turns out to be, and continue to work with her through it until she says she is ready. Whatever you do, don't rush her into anything.

Dear Blondie: Hi me and my man have been together for 2 years and 5 months and we been doing it since our 3rd month together and while we were having sex not once have I received an orgasm...it feels good to me sometimes but I never orgasm I usually have him rub me or eat me out for me to cum...what's wrong? let me know
Blondie's Response: The more you think about it, the less likely it'll happen. Relax and enjoy the ride. Plus, sometimes people can go forever w/out coming from penetration. For example, I have a friend that can only cum from oral, so don't worry.

Dear Blondie: Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years now and just recently (the last 7 or 8 months), he has been getting off inside of me. My problem with that is that now my "down under" stinks to high heaven sometimes. He says that is doesn't at all, but I remember when it smelled like a peach (honestly!!!). I've thought about how it could be our 2 nuts mixed together to create the odor...am I right or do I need to go to a doctor? Please help, even though my man doesn't mind....I DO!!!!!
Blondie's Response: Maybe you should douche, and if the smell still won't go away, go see a doctor.

Dear Blondie: When I finger my girl, she loves it, she goes nuts, but she neva cum'd, so I tried eating her out and fingering at the same time, NUTTIN! we had sex and still nothing. when she reaches her climax she just stops and says "I'm finished", you think its me, or is it hard to get a girl to cum?
Blondie's Response: It could be the both of you, but some girls need to more to cum than others.

Dear Blondie: Does size really matter?
Blondie's Response: Depends on the girl, but no matter what size dick you have...If you can work it, it's all good.

Dear Blondie: Every time I have sex after I get off I go limp but I'm not ready to stop. I feel inadequate when I can't keep going specially when she asks me if I wanna go again, I do but cant and she does not like oral sex so I cant just stall time till I'm ready what should I do?
Blondie's Response: Be honest with her, tell her your dicks tired even though you're not lol...It's normal...not all men are superheroes.

Dear Blondie: I was wondering how can a guy tell if A girl has lost her verginity if it is his first time with the girl?
Blondie's Response: Usually if she bleeds and how tight she is, but then again, there's really know way he can know for sure cause a) your hymen can break from various things besides intercourse, and b) if he hasn't been sexually involved with anyone he won't know what a tight pussy feels like unless he's tried a few out.

Dear Blondie: About a year ago me and now my ex boyfriend were going to have sex. Well I don't know if I would still consider myself a virgin because he didn't get it in all the way, he jus got it in like maybe an inch in a half he went up and down one time then quit because it wouldn't stay in because I was so tight, but he never did pop my cherry so would that make me still a virgin???
Blondie's Response: If you say your cherry didn't pop then I guess you can still call yourself a virgin...but then again, he did go in you, whether it was a lil or a lot...so if you wanna call yourself a virgin then by all means go ahead

Dear Blondie: What % of women can have an orgasm from intercourse missionary style? This is with no manual stimulation. {no hands or any toys, etc..]
Blondie's Response: After doing some research I have come to the conclusion that your question is too detailed to find statistics on. The only thing I can say is that the best way for a woman to orgasm w/out manual stimulation during sex is usually the missionary position because there is more direct contact w/ the clitoris, even though many other positions work well. There are many reasons positions don't work such as: In the male superior position, a man is likely to make long rapid thrusts. If he is low between his partner's legs, every time he pulls back he will lose contact with her clitoris. On the return stroke, he makes a straight shot into her vaginal canal, the opening of which is an inch or more below the desired target. Putting the woman's ankles on his shoulders will roll her hips up and back and move her clitoris ever further away from the thrusting male member. Thrusting in the rear entry position ("doggie style") misses the clitoris completely.

Dear Blondie: I lost my virginity and camed after like 1 hour, the next day some girl sucked me off and I nutted in a minute. Is dat normal give me some advice
Blondie's Response: You that horny dude? Next time try wacking off before you think you might get some.

Dear Blondie: Me and my fiance have sex like almost everyday and he cums in me all the time. I am so scared because I have not been yet pregnant and I am afraid I cant have kids. Can this ever happened and be able to still have kids?
Blondie's Response: You really looking forward to stretch marks that badly?

Dear Blondie: I think I cum too quickly when having sex. Can u give me some tips or anything that can help me last longer?
Blondie's Response: Jerk your chain a couple hours before you think you have a chance at getting some.

Dear Blondie: When me and my boyfriend have sex and I cum, its like water coming out. and its not like every other time. its every time. its seriously gross cause its literally like I am peeing, and its all wet and messy. but I know its not pee. So I am wondering if this is normal or what? should I go see a doctor?
Blondie's Response: Since I cannot see what you see, better go to the doctor if it concerns you.

Dear Blondie: My husband has a 9 and a 1/2 inch penis and when we first started having sex, it didn't hurt for him to go all the way in, now it does. Is there a possibility that he may be pushing against something? What should I do?
Blondie's Response: Lets call in the side referee to re-measure for the first down, bring out the chains!

Dear Blondie: Hey ok I have been with this guy for 5 months now and I love him very much we have a very strong relationship when we first got together we was having intercourse everyday some times twice a day but this past month I have had to beg him to sleep with me. Does this mean I’m nasty or is he cheating on me what’s this mean? When he does do it with me he loves it but most of the time he’s just making me give him head what’s the problem?
Blondie's Response: It is possible that he may be getting his onions fried somewhere else, but only he can tell you the answer to that.

Dear Blondie: I've been steady with my girl for 2 years now, and recently she's been hinting at sex. The problem is, we're both still virgins, and I know that sex will hurt her. Is there any way I can "stretch" her so that I won't hurt her so much the first time?
Blondie's Response: Just take it slow and everything will be ok.

Dear Blondie: Hi, can girls ejaculate? because I have seen videos that show girls having a orgasm and then ejaculating something. when I give my gf a orgasm nothing like that comes out. its like a white liquid. am I not giving my gf a orgasm or is that just for some girls?
Blondie's Response: I would have to say that it just depends on the person.

Dear Blondie: Do you think that just cause a girl can't orgasm during sex with a guy means their gay or could it be something about his technique? Cause I usually go for these bad boys who are basically all about them selves in bed and if you haven't gotten off by the time they have its not his problem. One of my boyfriends actually told me " sex is like the olympics, whoever gets off first wins!" Do you agree with him? I just wanted to know what's the best position to be in for a girl to have an orgasm? Thanks for your advice
Blondie's Response:  Various factors are involved, depending how into the guy you are? his technique, your mood the environment you are in etc.  I do not believe there is an ideal or best position, it would depend on the individual.

Dear Blondie: Ok, this is really embarrassing, but I'm a 21-yo girl. I met a guy who really turned me on, I got to know him and lost my virginity to him. I knew I'd be tight, but I didn't expect that much pain, though it subsided. The next morning, when we had sex again, there was still a bit of blood coming out of me and I was pretty tight, and later in the evening I noticed a tiny bit of blood when I urinated. Is this a sign something's broken in me? I fingered myself and I didn't hurt at all, and it doesn't hurt otherwise. Please answer. Thank you.
Blondie's Response: Sounds normal, if you are concerned go see your doctor.

Dear Blondie: I'm a 20 year old women and never had an orgasm during sex. I can climax evertime masturbating, but not through intercourse. I usually get really aroused during oral sex, but once he enters me and starts to go at it I loss interest. I don't have a boyfriend right now, but was hoping you could give me some advice when I do it again.
Blondie's Response: I think you may be gay.

Dear Blondie: My girlfriend is on the kinky side. lately she's been into this thing she forces me to cum in her and then eat her out. she says its the most erotic thing to her and its what makes her cum the hardest. I don't mind doing it in fact it turns me on to knowing she cums so hard from it. is this a common fetish? and have you ever had a guy do it to you?
Blondie's Response: I think you may be gay.

Dear Blondie: How do u finger yourself?   
Blondie's Response: You lie down, spread your legs, lick your fingers, and ram 'em up there.

Dear Blondie: Umm..I am not ready to sex sex but I wanna give my self and orgasm, how can I do that?   
Blondie's Response: Get your self a copy of an R&B cd (recommend Sunny (G) featuring Fesco Fruity) then hit the bed spread eagle.

Dear Blondie: I am married with a problem. Every time I have sex with my husband, I fantasize about my hot and sexy cousin, who is also married. Is this wrong?  
Blondie's Response:  Well, if you had sex with your hot sexy cousin would you fantasize about your husband?

Dear Blondie: Me& my boy friend have been going out for a while now and he wants to move on to the next step but I am not sure I am like scared but I want to make him happy but I love him what should I do.  
Blondie's Response:  You are going to do what you wanna do anyway.  Do not do anything for him cause you think you love him, cause chances are he might be old news in months, years.

Dear Blondie: I love my boyfriend so much and he loves me but I'm afraid to loose my virginity to him because I've heard from some of my friends that his dick is big (very big) so what should I do I mean I'm ready and so is he but I'm scared to do it because of his size......will it hurt  
Blondie's Response:  It probably will hurt, but I'm sure that since he loves you, he'll take his size and your virginity into consideration, and he will take it slow and easy. If you see that he's trying to ram it in, tell him to slow down.

Dear Blondie: My girlfriend told me that she was a virgin when we had just started going out...that was 9 months ago and I've just found out that she had lied and that I wasn't her first. now, I wouldn't have minded her not being a virgin if that is what she had said at the beginning but as I was under the impression I was her first, this is really bothering me. I'm not quite sure what to do. I'm hesitant to bring this up to her because I found out she had been lying by stumbling upon a chain of letters she had written to her best friend 2 years ago, when in fact she had lost her virginity. what do I do?
Blondie's Response:  There's nothing you really can do. You weren't her first and you gotta face the fact. I know it's hard knowing that the one you cared for has lied to you in that way, but you can't confront her. By you showing her that you found her letters and read them shows that you are a snoop and have no trust by invading her privacy-even though she lied to you. All you can do is swallow the truth, or think of a way to bring up without attacking her.

Dear Blondie: Me and my girlfriend attempted anal sex but when I put it in she screamed, so I stopped. she said that it really hurt. what can we do so it doesn't hurt her so much because we both want to do it. can spit be used as a lubricant. 
Blondie's Response:  You can't thrust it in, you must both be relaxed and ease it in slowly once you have applied the lubrication.

Dear Blondie: I'm 17 and me and my boyfriend are thinking about having sex, but I'm scared. I know that everyone has an odor down there but I don't know how he'll react- because he's never eaten me out before. I'm also scared about getting anal because of course an odor is produced from there, should I be worried?
Blondie's Response:  Everyone does have their own odor, but as long as you clean yourself beforehand I'm sure that you will be fine.

Dear Blondie: Hi, got any hints on how to orally please a girl. like any special tricks and what not. Also how come sometimes a lot after I masturbate I have to urinate is that weird or does it just have to do with something else.
Blondie's Response:  From experience, when you are down there, don't concentrate only on her clit...pay attention to all of it's surroundings. Once she starts getting all hot, finger her at the same time. As for urination after masturbation--I guess you just have to pee and let it all out.

Dear Blondie: What is the easiest way to give a guy a hard on?
Blondie's Response:  Talk dirty to him, and gently touch his dick from outside his pants while you look him straight in the eyes with a fuck me look.

Dear Blondie: My boyfriend and I have been going out for 4 months and I want to get fingered how do I get him to do that, because I'm a virgin and I'm nervous of asking him to do it.
Blondie's Response:  While you're making out, take his hand and place it inside your pants...he'll get the hint.

Dear Blondie: My boyfriend and I have been having a lot of sex... but I have never bleed. He is the first guy I have ever had sex with. Does that mean that I haven't had my cherry popped? Am I still a "virgin"?
Blondie's Response:  You are definitely not a virgin if you've had sex many times. The reason why you haven't bled from having intercourse with him is because your hymen, thin membrane covering the vaginal opening, had already been broken. Your hymen doesn't have to break from a dick entering you, it can break from being fingered, riding a bike, etc.

Dear Blondie: I was watching playboy tv the other day and there was a guy on there that made tongue fetish videos. Anyway, he said that there are exercises or things you can do to lengthen your tongue. He said the tongue is a muscle and you can stretch it. Is this true?
Blondie's Response: Yes!

Dear Blondie: How come when cum comes out of the penis hurts?
Blondie's Response:  Ejaculation doesn't hurt unless you have a cut or are injured in some way. If that's not the case, see your doctor.

Dear Blondie: I'm uncircumcised how can I make my dick bigger without using and kinds of pills or pumps or anything related to that?
Blondie's Response:  Those things don't work, you are stuck with what God gave you

Dear Blondie: I'm 15, and I'm a virgin, when I finger myself I cum, but now I find my self cumming. When I'm not even fingering. is that normal or do I have like a problem? 
Blondie's Response:  Are you sure you're cumming or do you think you are cumming because you see discharge? I've never really heard of that, but try and think of instances where you "cum" without fingering yourself, to find out what the reason is. If you aren't doing anything and just cum like that, then see a doctor, cause I don't know what to tell you.

Dear Blondie: Tonight the girl slept ova my house. I rubbed her as I usually did this time she turned over and let me rub her pussy and she wasn't even getting effected... she'd start getting into and then stop then she let me do it for like 10 minutes her eyes were closed and then out of no where she said I'm going to sleep. You think she made me do that till she came w/o letting me know so I wouldn't do nothing else? 
Blondie's Response:  If she didn't cum, then I think she got frustrated by lack of sexual talent and decided to just forget it and go to bed. Watch some porn and take notes.

Dear Blondie: My girl friend and I are ready to have sex. We are both virgins. When we start having sex how long does it take b4 her cherry pops and is it really painful for her? Also how long does the bleeding last ?
Blondie's Response:  Once you enter your dick you break her hymen, if it hasn't been broken already. It is a bit painful, but not to the point of hospitalization, and it does bleed but not too long.

Dear Blondie: Why is it when I have sex after a long time sometimes I have to piss... and sometimes it just comes out? what should I do? Any suggestions? 
Blondie's Response:  You must try kegel exercises because it seems that your pelvic muscles are weak. You should tighten the two major muscles that stretch across your pelvic floor. They are the "hammock" muscle and the "triangle" muscle. Here are three methods to check for the correct muscles: a) Try to stop the flow of urine when you are sitting on the toilet. If you can do it, you are using the right muscles, b )Imagine that you are trying to stop passing gas. Squeeze the muscles you would use. If you sense a "pulling" feeling, those are the right muscles for pelvic exercises, and c )Lie down and put your finger inside your vagina. Squeeze as if you were trying to stop urine from coming out. If you feel tightness on your finger, you are squeezing the right pelvic muscle. Don't squeeze other muscles at the same time. Be careful not to tighten your stomach, legs, or other muscles. Squeezing the wrong muscles can put more pressure on your bladder control muscles. Just squeeze the pelvic muscle. Don't hold your breath.

Dear Blondie: Hey Blondie, I have a problem, me and my girlfriend have been together for a while, and we have had sex and done other things, but the problem is she wants to have a 3some with another guy, and she said if I would agree to that, she would have a 3some with another girl, now I really want to make her happy, but I am a jealous guy, I get mad when a guy even try's to flirt with her, but I really want to make her happy, because I love her so much, she told me if I really had a problem with it that she wouldn't make me, but I knew she was disappointed, what do I do?
Blondie's Response:  Don't do it if you think you will regret it. If you're a jealous guy, then a threesome will drive you insane and cause problems in the relationship because you will start thinking about how your girl was being touched by him. I know you love her and want to make her happy, but we can't have everything in life. Stick to just you and her and she'll get over it. If she doesn't, then she's not worth your love.

Dear Blondie: Hi, I have 2 questions, #1, if a guy masturbates a lot, would it cause his dick to not grow, and #2 if so, would his dick grow if he stopped masturbating all together?
Blondie's Response:  Masturbating has no affect on the growth of your dick.

Dear Blondie: I used to fool around with this girl now, when she's ova my house she'll lie down and ill rub her ass her legs but if I get close to her Pussy she'll say STOP she wont let me do anything to her and all she wants is me to rub her feet and if she does let me do something its eat her out then she wants me to leave her alone? what can I do to get her in the mood? 
Blondie's Response:  If you want to get her in the mood, take her out and show her a good, romantic, fun time. Get her comfortable to the point that she's putty in your hands. Show her that you care for her, even if it's not the case. Then, bring her back to your place and talk dirty to her and tell her how much you would like to do sexual things with her. But, this girl sounds very selfish and strange, so I would say find another one.

Dear Blondie: Dear Blondie I got the depo shot, then like 2 weeks later me and my boyfriend had sex and he got off inside of me do u think I could get pregnant cause they say to wait like a month.
Blondie's Response:  You can never be too safe. So, I suggest you take a test to be on the sure side.

Dear Blondie: I'm 23 and been with my man a year. I like to try different things. outfits, positions, places and so on, but he seems to shy to do most of the things I like. He won't even talk nasty, although he likes it when I do. Another thing he's a porn addict I think it becomes sickening when u got the pussy laying right next to you and u will wake up in the middle of the night to jerk off and get caught. But if I wake up n decide to pop in the video n pleasure myself its like I broke a law? What exactly do u think the deal is? 
Blondie's Response:   I think he's been jerking off to porno's way too long and often that he's become accustomed to it and can only fully be satisfied with his own hand.
You sound like a great girlfriend, but he's just too stupid to realize it. Get rid of the porno's and make yourself the only attraction he can view. If that doesn't work, then get another lover, cause that's just gay.

Dear Blondie: I been messing around with this guy. I really like him but he has a girl We don't see each other that often but he told me he wants to have sex. I'm a virgin and don't know what to do.
Blondie's Response:  Stay away!!! No way should you lose your precious virginity to a cheating bastard! Find someone who's worth it.

Dear Blondie: What is the best way to give a blow job?
Blondie's Response:  First, get directly in front of his dick so his cock and balls are in full view ready for licking and sucking. Start by holding his dick in your hand and giving long licks all over, up the shaft and balls. Then, stick it in your mouth and start sucking him off (making sure you don't use your teeth while building up a lot of saliva.) Suck him while you jerk him off, and when he's ready to cum, open wide :).

Dear Blondie: My boyfriend and myself just started having sex. he wants to do anal but I'm afraid to. should I be afraid? is there any way it could be easier to give it?
Blondie's Response:  If you are willing to have anal sex, then do it. The only thing that you should be afraid of is a little pain. Make sure you apply extra lubrication, or anal ease, and once you are relaxed, let him ease it in slowly. Tell him to take it very slowly in the beginning until you are comfortable, and then he may proceed. But, make sure not to clench your butt or you'll hurt yourself.

Dear Blondie: Me and my boyfriend have been together for a month and a half now and we got sexual already and when we was having sex we did it raw and after I cummed and he cummed he was still hard and it wouldn't go down for no exaggeration like 10 min am I doing something wrong or is he? and also when we are having sex I feel like I have to fart but I know I don't have too cause when he takes it out I feel like that anymore what is that and is it going to go away can you please explain this to me and 1 last question sometimes when I am having sex it makes my stomach hurt what is that also will all these go away or what can I do to make em go away
Blondie's Response:  The fact that he can stay hard a long while after, is a blessing rather than a curse. About you feeling that you have to fart during sex, I guess it's probably pressure on your stomach. Maybe you shouldn't eat right before sex, and you should stay away from gassy foods. Lastly, pain during sex is usually caused by a rough partner. Tell him to ease up, and if that doesn't help see your doctor.

Dear Blondie: I have a question, me and my girlfriend have been together for almost a year, and I really love her very much, and we have done stuff like me eating her out, and fingering her, and she gave me a hand job, and now we have been talking about having sex, but she is kinda scared to, what can I do to show her that I want to do this because I really love her and I am not just trying to get in her pants, cause that not at all what I am trying to do, I just think we should take our relationship to the next level, and I want to show her the love that I have for her, I hope you can help me blondie, please!!!
Blondie's Response:  Good question but this is kind of tough because it's a very sensitive subject for many. The most important thing is to show her how much you care for her and how much she can trust you. You have to get her as comfortable as possible with you and prove to her in your actions and sayings that you love her and will not leave her. You can't force the issue on her, but casually tell her that you want it. Bring it up at the right time, and tell her exactly what you told me, that you want to do this because you really love her and you're not just trying to get in her pants, cause that's not at all what you're trying to do, you just think you both should take your relationship to the next level, and you want to show her the love that you have for her. Once she hears this, after you have proven yourself to her, I'm sure you'll be having sex in no time. All you can do is wait for the day.

Dear Blondie: I'm natural and uncircumcised... during sex, a few times my frenulum (connects skin to penis) had ripped or something but either way, it bled like crazy. It would stop in a few minutes, but it is horrible. What do I do? Second, my penis has sort of a ball/circular layer of skin at the front that when erect is on the bottom. What is that?
Blondie's Response:  Your problem can be fixed by a 20 minute procedure, depending on your doctor. To get technical with you, on the erect penis, if the frenulum is too short it causes the foreskin to slide forward. So, pain is caused when the foreskin is tugged back, where during intercourse, a tight frenulum will often rip and bleed. I strongly recommend that you see a doctor because this condition gets worse with age. Sometimes the rip will heal with a vulnerable scar which may make the frenulum even tighter and cause it to rip again, so that the process continues forever. Besides that, an occasional wart ulcer or scab can develop on the frenulum after it rips and this may even break off when engaging in sex. But, as for that extra ball of skin, I'm not quite understanding what you are talking about. Please make an appointment regarding any concerns you may have as soon as possible.

Dear Blondie: My girl and I mess around a lot. she loves for me to eat her and I love doing it cause it makes her feel great but she never has an orgasm but after the filling gets really strong she says it tickles. is that ok and what does it mean. she tells me it fills really great but I don't understand why it tickles after a while.
Blondie's Response:  It tickles cause she's probably about to cum.

Dear Blondie: I had sex about 10 times already, it never felt good for me it always hurt, this last time it was really painful and I was bleeding like I had my period what's wrong with me?  
Blondie's Response:  You are probably still too tight, and he's giving it to you hard. Tell him to ease up a bit and take it slow so that you may actually feel pleasure instead on pain.

Dear Blondie: My boyfriend and I try to have sex the other day but he couldn't do it dose a guy have to be really hard or what my boyfriend said he wasn't really hard so what should I do?
Blondie's Response:  Your boyfriend does have to be hard to successfully have sex with you. If you see that you want sex and he's not hard enough, then get on your knees and suck him off.

Dear Blondie: I was wearing a bathing suit and so was my boyfriend, we had been swimming earlier in the day and then we had dry sex. He cummed. Would the dry chlorine on my bathing suit kill the sperm? Or do I have a chance of still being pregnant?   
Blondie's Response:  There is always a chance of getting pregnant, no matter how cautious you are. The only sure way to prevent pregnancy is abstinence.

Dear Blondie: I'm a 24 male. My wife doesn't like to give me a head and I don't want asking her to do it for me. What should I do while I eat her pussy every day.   
Blondie's Response:  There's nothing you can really do but tell her how much you want it. Don't force it on her, just explain how much better you'd feel if she gave you head. If she still won't do it, stop pleasing her or go on as you were before.

Dear Blondie: I know everyone's different, but I wonder if many girls like porn as much as guys. Some of the girls at school seem to enjoy checking out the fuck sites on the net. I thought they regarded porn as degrading or something.  
Blondie's Response:  I don't know the statistics on how many girls actually like porn, but I'm sure many probably do. Girls may lie to you about liking porn because they are embarrassed that you may think of them differently. But, like you said, everyone's different.

Dear Blondie: Me and my best friend really like each other or so it seems and I feel that I am really ready to have sex with him, but I'm kinda scared not just about having sex but the fact that I might get pregnant. He said that we can wait till I'm ready. But I want to express my feelings towards him in a more physical way to show him I care about him and that I want to be with him what should I do?    
Blondie's Response:  There are more ways of expressing your feelings towards a person besides having sex. The fact that he is willing to wait for you is great. Remember that even with protection, the pill, or your period, there is still a possibility of getting pregnant. First decide if you are ready to have a baby or ready to deal with the consequences, if it happens by chance, then proceed to have sex. There's no need to rush, or to prove your feelings by having sex.

Dear Blondie: This girl wants me to have sex with her. She's probably a virgin. Is it gonna be a mess? She gonna bleed all over?   
Blondie's Response:  If she is a virgin, she will probably bleed. The only way she won't bleed is if her hymen has already been broken by getting fingered, etc. To play it safe, make sure you lay a towel underneath her.

Dear Blondie: Hey Blondie, I am 16 and me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 7 months now, and we talk about having sex all the time, but we have only gone as far as me fingering her, and eating her out, the main reason iv been avoiding sex is because when my penis is limp, it is only 4 inches, but when it is hard it is about 10, and about 2 inches thick, is that normal, and is there anything I can do to make it bigger when it is limp.    
Blondie's Response:  Who cares how long your dick is when it's limp. It's 10 inches when hard for God's sake!

Dear Blondie: I really want to make my g/f cum. I always finger her and I do think I get her off and stuff but how do I know if she cums and how can I make her cum.   
Blondie's Response:  If you feel your girlfriends pussy tighten up, get more wet than usual, and moan in ecstasy then those are signs that she's cumming. When fingering a girl to the point of climax, you should rub her clit at the same time to get her going.

Dear Blondie: I really want to make my g/f cum. I always finger her and I do think I get her off and stuff but how do I know if she cums and how can I make her cum.   
Blondie's Response:  If you feel your girlfriends pussy tighten up, get more wet than usual, and moan in ecstasy then those are signs that she's cumming. When fingering a girl to the point of climax, you should rub her clit at the same time to get her going.

Dear Blondie: hi. I aim 16 years older. I masturbate a lot. and I cum real quick. I want to have sex but I don't want to cum quick. is there any way that I can last longer? will I last longer when I have sex?   
Blondie's Response:  Since you cum quickly from jerking off, I am sure that you'll most likely cum quicker when you have your dick inside a warm pussy. When you finally get down to having sex, make sure you jerk off a lot before hand to last longer during intercourse. If that doesn't work, the second time around, try to think of something nonsexual. The more you keep your mind of sex, the longer you'll last.

Dear Blondie: I have had sex with my boyfriend several time and I still can't cum...how do I know when I'm cumming?? or what do u feel when you cum?   
Blondie's Response:   If you can't cum from having sex, it means it's not being done properly. Having successful sex takes practice. By getting to know a person more, what they like in bed, and taking each other's needs into consideration will lead to sexual bliss. When you cum: (a) involuntary muscle contractions begin, (b) blood pressure, heart rate, and breathing are at their highest rates, with a rapid intake of oxygen, (c) muscles in the feet spasm, (d) there is a sudden, forceful release of sexual tension, (e) the muscles of the vagina contract, and (f) a rash, or "sex flush" may appear over the entire body. So trust me, if you don't know if you came, then that means that you didn't cum.

Dear Blondie: Hi. I'm 17 and my dick hangs to the left. I've heard that its normal. but my dick isn't straight when I get hard. is that normal? how can I get it straight?
Blondie's Response:  It's normal, don't worry about it. Every dick comes in different shapes and sizes. You can't make it straight, you are stuck with what God gave you. Remember though, it's not a bad thing whether you hang to the left, right, or straight down, as long as you can work it. :)

Dear Blondie: If I had the head of a dick rubbed on my pussy those that still make me a virgin?  
Blondie's Response:  Yes, you are still considered a virgin until the dick penetrates your pussy and tears your hymen.

Dear Blondie: Is it wrong to always wanting to have anal sex with your partner?   
Blondie's Response:  It is wrong only if your partner doesn't always want to do it. If you both want it, don't worry, just bend her over and start fucking.

Dear Blondie: I'm a 19 yr. old guy and I play water polo, swim, lifeguard, and just began teaching swimming lessons to kids. I've just recently started going to this "over chlorinated" pool. And I've noticed that my pubes aren't black anymore, they look like spider webs, they're dirty blonde. I'm afraid that when my girl goes down on me she might be disgusted. How do I go about shaving my pubes? will it itch? do girls like shaved balls? Do you think if I stopped going to that pool they will turn black again?   
Blondie's Response:  Shave. It will itch a little at first but it will go away. Its best to use a razor with a lot of shaving cream. And yes girl prefer shaved guy over non shaved guy, less mess.

Dear Blondie: 0k I'm still a virgin and I'm scared of losing it cuz I think my tits lo0k a little saggy for my age. Do you think who ever I lose it to will be 0k with it?   
Blondie's Response:  First of all, when you do lose your virginity, it should be to someone who cares for you as much as you care for them. If that is the case then I don't think that they will really care about your tits being more saggy than most girls your age. It's about your whole package, not only your tits. If he would be a guy to get disgusted by that then he's not worth your time and virginity.

Dear Blondie: Hi! the only time I can have anal sex with my b/f is when I have my period. other time's I've tried and it hurts or I'm not into it. (is that normal?) do you have any tips on how I can get in the mood? or will my b/f only get it when I have my period?   
Blondie's Response:  The reason you possibly are only able to have anal sex during your period is because you are more relaxed, wet, and want sex badly. So, since you won't have regular sex you go the anal way. To achieve good anal sex you must be relaxed, ready to do it, and be very lubricated. So, it's up to you to decide when your boyfriend will have anal with you.

Dear Blondie: What is the difference between a man ejaculating and a man having an orgasm
Blondie's Response:  In technical terms, ejaculation and orgasm fall under the same category of the sexual response cycle. In a sexually mature male, stimulation of the erect penis leads to ejaculation, the discharge of semen that accompanies sexual climax or orgasm. After ejaculation, blood drainage returns the penis to its normal limp state.

Dear Blondie: What's the difference between an UNCUT and a CUT penis? and Does it hurts a guy when having sex for the first time?.   
Blondie's Response:  The terms uncut (uncircumcised) and cut (circumcised) are referring to the foreskin of your penis. Male circumcision is a surgery to remove the foreskin, a fold of skin that covers and protects the rounded tip of the penis. This surgery is most commonly done on newborns about 24 hours old. If a baby is born early or has certain medical conditions, he may be circumcised when he is somewhat older. Circumcision may also be done to treat some medical conditions that affect the penis of older boys and men, such as banalities (inflammation of the tip of the penis), phimosis, and paraphimosis. It's usually healthier to be circumcised, but it's not necessary. To answer your last question, sex is not painful for guys if done properly.

Dear Blondie: I just found this site on google, and was wondering if you could help. I'm 14 (nearly 15) and my 'equipment' is just under 4 inches when erect, and about 1 inch thick. I'm really concerned about this, because I know other boys my age are a good 6 inches or more. I've used other internet help sites and they weren't very good, please help me because it is good being able to talk to other people about this.   
Blondie's Response:  There is nothing wrong with you, all men come in all different shapes and sizes. Almost 90 percent of men fall within the range of 5 to 7 inches in length. So, you can think of yourself as being special considering you are part of the other 10%. There's no need to worry though because you are still growing.

Dear Blondie: I have been messing around with my girl for a while. I finger her all the time but she never has had an orgasm yet and she says I'm really good at what I do all the time. I was wondering if you could give me any hints to make her have an orgasm.   
Blondie's Response:  Maybe you should try something else instead of only fingering her. Try licking her down there while fingering her at the same time. Experiment with her, talk dirty, kiss her, see what makes her hot and heavy and proceed until she climaxes.

Dear Blondie: I'm a 21 year old male and had sex many times with different girls but I can not last longer then 20 seconds but sometimes I can last forever when I get head. I have tried masturbating before I have sex thinking of nonsexual stuff pretty much everything. what can I do so that I can last longer?  
Blondie's Response:  Maybe the foreplay before the sex is lasting too long? try to get right into sex without foreplay see if you encounter the same problem.

Dear Blondie: Okay I need know what are some things to get a guy turned on  
Blondie's Response:  Dress sexy for him, tease him, then of course, tell him how you're going to please him.

Dear Blondie:  I masturbate once a day, and before I start to apply the lubricant, I notice that my penis has a slight bend from right to left. is this normal? please help me out here! 
Blondie's Response:  It is normal for your dick to be curved. Dicks vary in size and shape from person to person. You have nothing to worry about. Just smile and keep jerking.

Dear Blondie:  I really enjoy having sex, but I want to have sex wit my cousin and she's a virgin I ate her out licked her butt, everything u name it and she still wont f#@k me what should I do? 
Blondie's Response:  You should fuck your aunt first so that she may tell her daughter how it was. If you made it worth your aunt's while, I'm sure you'll be in your cousin's pants in no time.

Dear Blondie:  What is it called when a girl can deep throat without having a reflex?
Blondie's Response:  Awesome

Dear Blondie:  ok I am 17 and just lost my virginity but he only lasted 10 minutes so is it really considered losing my virginity even though it didn't last long ?
Blondie's Response:  Losing your virginity is losing your virginity, no matter what way you look at it. Him only lasting 10 minutes means that the sex wasn't good for you but great for him since you were a tight virgin. Plain and simple.

Dear Blondie:  How do I get a girl to give me suck mi=y dick
Blondie's Response:  EAT HER PUSSY!

Dear Blondie:  I have never been with a man who is uncircumcised. I have met a man who is and the last few times we have been together I am having a difficult time getting it in ? what do I do? is there an easier way?
Blondie's Response:  Use lubrication, or blow him and build up enough saliva so that it may slide in easily.

Dear Blondie:  Can u get pregnant if b4 u have sex u give oral sex and he cummed in your mouth, then u have sex ??
Blondie's Response:  Yes, because there may be some cum in the surrounding area that may, by chance, go into you. Always play it safe and use protection.

Dear Blondie:  I am really insecure about myself I have a 7 inch penis and I still think it is small. My girl friend tells me not to worry cause I sometimes hurt her as it is. Most of the times she says it feels awesome. So I think it needs to feel better for her. I'm always reading how women like bigger dicks so should I be humble with what I got or go for the extra mile with growth pills?
Blondie's Response:  First of all, growth pills don't work. Second of all, seven inches is a nice size due to the fact that five and a half inches is average. Lastly, if your girlfriend isn't complaining, then what are you worried about? Be happy about what you have.

Dear Blondie:  What is the quickest way to get a girl to put out ??
Blondie's Response: Diamonds.

 

Dear Blondie:  My boyfriend likes to have anal sex with me, which I can tolerate most of the time, but he likes to have me suck on it after he has been in my ass and then after I suck it he likes to put it back in and do it again. I guess I do it cause I don't want him to feel bad, is this unhealthy for me?
Blondie's Response: That can't be healthy, a lot of bacteria in there. Plus, it is gross !

 

Dear Blondie:  I was wondering if I masturbate too much if I could go blind.. also if I masturbate will it make my dick get bigger... one more... is it ok to have an anal fetish like no other?
Blondie's Response: I think you should blindfold yourself and try to stretch your penis as far down as it can go til you can anally penetrate yourself.

 

Dear Blondie:  Should u shave your pussy?
Blondie's Response: What I do with my pussy is none of your business.